Sisters

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Juanita Elizabeth and Violet Angela were sisters. Born five years apart, more than a hundred years ago, they knew a very different world from ours today but their relationship was one many of us would recognize. It was complicated: full of love and loathing, loyalty and betrayal, kindnesses and unspeakable cruelty. Both became smart, capable and accomplished women in an age where that didn’t count for a lot. They each married, had families, divorced, had other partners and worked professionally all their lives. Their children, alive still today, can recount the tumultuous stories of their young lives. Their great-grandchildren, fortunately, can’t even imagine behaving similarly.

I, daughter to Juanita and Angela’s niece, watch my granddaughters today. They were born in this century. They too are about five years apart, and although they have different fathers, they are as close as any sisters could hope to be. I have never seen either one be consciously mean to the other. I have witnessed disagreement, even exasperation, but never violence between them. They seem to genuinely like each other and find their differences intriguing rather than annoying. I love to listen to them from another room, discussing all manner of things, giggling uncontrollably or even sitting, reading, in companionable silence. I think then of my relationship with my sisters.

There were four of us; between us we had one Dad and two Moms. The two oldest have passed on in the last couple of years. They were enough older than the youngest and me that we didn’t grow up together, but we claimed each other as siblings and I mourn their loss even though I really don’t think I ever knew them very well. And now there are two. One on each coast. Years pass between visits. Letters and phone calls don’t happen anymore. Emails and texts suffice. We’re not even “friends” on Facebook. Our memories of our childhood differ so widely, you’d think we were in alternate universes instead of the same house. Our lives since growing up have been similar, but different. Different tragedies, struggles, successes, but interestingly similar epiphanies. We both seem to have come to a place of gentle self care and a distant benevolence toward each other. It’s okay I guess, but I always wanted to be a sister.

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Come to the manger …

Jesus Resting on a Manger

“Come To The Manger” is a Christmas song written by my dear friend, colleague, mentor and first piano teacher the Reverend Doctor Lois Ruth Bartel. Over the years I sang her song at quite a few Christmas Eve Candlelight Services at our church, both accompanied by various wonderful pianists and once, terrifyingly, a cappella when our musician couldn’t make it through the snowstorm! It’s haunting melody and message fill me still with the wonder, mystery and magic of this sacred time. I share it with you this Christmas morn, before the sun even rises on a brand new day, hoping it finds your heart as open and filled with love as mine is for you … ❤️

Come, come to the manger
See the sweet infant there,
See the beautiful lady
Watch with loving care.

Come, come with the humble
Hear the choirs above,
There, yes there in the manger
Is found the only true love.

Have you searched and searched the world around
And never found true peace?
The come, come, come to the manger
Or your search will never cease.

Where, where is that manger?
Where, oh where do you start?
You can find it your own way:
Just say a prayer with your heart.

Happy Solstice

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Flush with the promise of new dreams and high intentions from the just passed new moon, eager for Mercury to go direct again, and with the shortest day and longest night just past, we launch our new baby: linsleylegacy.com into the world! Like most newly born, it’s full potential may be difficult to discern just yet, but here are some of the visions, in no particular order, that Gil and I, as proud parents, can see…Chronicles of our travels in the motorhome, Gail’s sermon archives, Gil’s blog, Jazz Guys music videos, family news and pictures, and ?

 

 

 

 

 

Peace Be Unto Thee…

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Peace be unto thee stranger. Enter and be not afraid.
The door is open and thou art welcome to our home.
There is room in our house for all.
We have swept the hearth and lighted the fire.
The room is warm and cheerful and
you will find comfort and rest within.
The table is laid and the fruits of Life are spread before thee.
The wine is here also. It sparkles in the light.
We have set a chair for you
where the sunbeams dance through the shade.
Sit and rest and refresh your soul.
Eat of the fruit and drink the wine.
All, all is yours, and you are welcome.

~Ernest Holmes~